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Wednesday, October 31, 2007

 

Eye Contact

An interesting look into "eye contact" by Christschool:

2 Comments:

Anonymous -Brian- said...

When a parent, sibling, guardian, teacher, or other professional tries to force an autistic person (diagnosed or otherwise) to make eye contact, that person is just a guilty of torture as those at the JRC.

Often, personally, I have been told, very bluntly, "Look at me when I talk to you!", even to the point of grabbing my head and turning my face towards that person. Once the eye contact is made, I am totally bewildered as to what the person is talking about, as all I can do is see the outline of that person's eyes, and that picture before me cuts off all verbal communication (as they show in the video, very well).

I was told repeatedly that eye contact was, in itself, a form of communication. With gestures, eye contact, tone of voice, and other mannerisms mixed in with the verbal message (in any language), it's no wonder we have a terrible time at communicating with each other, and that the messages often get completely garbled as to what the person was stating.

When, if ever, will it get to the point of each person saying what they mean and meaning what they say, without the interference of gestures, tones, and eye contact?

9:37 PM  
Blogger C'est Moi! said...

Very interesting and insightful. I, myself,will go into panic attacks from to much eye contact with a person...especially if it's a stressful conversation.

7:00 PM  

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